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I wrote yesterday for a lawyer referral, and am writing again today seeking help with a Parenting Time Enforcement request to Multnomah Family Courts.  I'd like to speak with two to three different lawyers, to see what recourse and best options I have for restoring parenting time to our court ordered plan and to reunifying with my fifteen year old daughter.  I've left a message with Daniel E Russell but have not heard back yet.
 
I wrote yesterday for a lawyer referral, and am writing again today seeking help with a Parenting Time Enforcement request to Multnomah Family Courts.  I'd like to speak with two to three different lawyers, to see what recourse and best options I have for restoring parenting time to our court ordered plan and to reunifying with my fifteen year old daughter.  I've left a message with Daniel E Russell but have not heard back yet.
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- 2018-11-30 Friday -
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Dawn,
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It is not my preference to go to court to restore Tony's and my parenting time, and it's not my preference to spend thousands of dollars on legal stuff to realize that.  Over the past few years I have tried multiple times to talk with you and communicate about issues with Tony to you directly.  I've asked for your support of Tony's time with me and my family.  Your response has been that you don't want to talk with me, that you are not involved and don't want to be a part of it.  You insist I must work things out with Tony only one on one.
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I've tried to rebuild my and Tony's relationship and understand her position better through joint counseling, but you effectively stopped that and offered no real path forward from there.  Over all of Tony's years I have listened to and answered your requests for schedule amendments, and to take Tony to appointemnts, and in our parent coordination to you insist that you don't want to talk to me and that I don't listen.  In multiple ways you have shut down our communication before we can start it.
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As a non-custodial parent I really depend on your values and choices to support Tony's time with me and my family.  Beyond that I have only a few resources, a fact which you well know.  I have several e-mails from you in which you tell me that Tony's right, I'm wrong, and I just need to give in to her demands in order to see Tony again.  You could have said at any number of points, "Tony, you don't agree with your Dad on issue x but it is still important for you to spend time with him and his family."  Instead over a long period of time you've brought us to a point where I'm at my last resort.
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I don't know what the court will say or what enforcement may look like.  All along I've been asking for your support -- not enforcement -- of mutual parenting times for Tony.  Your latest e-mail speaks volumes to your view when you mention none of these things, but bring up laywers and dollar amount costs.  I prefer not to go to court or spend lots of money.  But I'm willing to spend a great deal for my family and I to be able to see Tony again and have a chance at a healthy relationship.  That is how important it is to me to be able to see my daughter.
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- Ted
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1)  *  you don't want to talk with me
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*  you don't want to support Tony seeing me
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*  you don't want to support joint counseling for me and Tony
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*  you don't want to address any issues I bring to the parenting coordinator
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